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Resources on Mental Health, Trauma, Relationships, and Our Shared Humanity.
Mindfulness and Mental Health: Beyond Just “Taking a Breath”
Mindfulness is a word you hear everywhere, and most of us have a general idea of what it is. But it’s also an easy word to brush off. When someone recommends trying mindfulness, meditation, or breath work, a common internal response is often, “Yeah, yeah, got it”—and we mentally move on to the next thing. In fact, our booking team often hears requests like, “Please don’t book me with someone who’s just going to tell me to breathe.” The first truth is, mindfulness is both an art and a science, and it’s profoundly effective. However, without understanding the science-based, and neurobiological reasons behind it, people often overlook its potential as a powerful resource both in and outside of therapy. The second truth is, forming helpful coping strategies is HARD—it takes time, patience, and deliberate practice every day to see changes and develop new habits. It may be an important question to ask yourself if you’ve given mindfulness an honest shot.
Winter is coming, and so is SAD.
Every year, as the seasons change and the days get shorter, many of us notice a dip in our mood. We may feel more tired, less motivated to leave the house, and for some, feelings of sadness or even depressive moods can emerge. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is a type of depression that occurs during specific seasons, most commonly in the winter, due to reduced sunlight and shorter days.
How Somatic Therapy Has Changed My Trauma Therapy Clinical Practice
For years, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) reigned as the go-to modality in psychotherapy. However, a new approach is gaining momentum: Somatic Therapy.
With nearly a decade of experience, I’ve worked extensively with clients grappling with trauma, especially those who’ve endured multiple or complex traumatic events, often from childhood. Early in my practice, I became intrigued—albeit skeptical—about Somatic Therapy. It was a word that was veiled in mystery to me - what did it mean and entail?
Why Counselling is Worth the Investment
Do you find yourself stuck in repeated patterns and struggle to break the cycle on your own? If you could picture yourself 6 months from now, what do you want to see for your life?
In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to overlook our mental and emotional well-being. We invest in our physical health, education, and careers, but often neglect the importance of our mental health. Counselling, however, is a powerful tool that can significantly enhance our quality of life. Engaging in counselling or therapy can lead to numerous positive gains, feelings, and behaviors. Here are some of the most common ones…
Direct Billing for Registered Clinical Counsellors in British Columbia: Everything You Need To Know
It’s finally (almost) here! In an exciting development for mental health care in British Columbia (BC), direct billing for registered clinical counsellors is soon to be available. This change marks a significant step forward in making mental health services more accessible and affordable for clients across the province. By reducing the financial and administrative burden on clients, direct billing is set to improve the overall experience of seeking mental health support.
If you struggle to talk about your trauma in therapy, EMDR might be for you.
EMDR therapy is a structured psychotherapy approach that aims to alleviate the distress associated with traumatic memories. Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR focuses on the reprocessing of traumatic events through specific procedures and techniques. The therapy is based on the premise that traumatic experiences can overwhelm the brain's natural ability to process information, leading to the persistence of distressing symptoms.
The Perfect Match: A Best-Match Approach for Clinical Counseling
Imagine stepping into a clinic, seeking guidance and support, only to be paired randomly with a counsellor who may not understand your unique needs and struggles. Such encounters can be discouraging and counterproductive, potentially deterring individuals from seeking help altogether. This is where the importance of a best-match approach becomes evident.
At the heart of the best-match approach is the recognition that every individual is unique, with distinct experiences, preferences, and goals. Therefore, the one-size-fits-all approach to counselling simply doesn't suffice. Instead, a personalized approach that takes into account the specific needs and characteristics of each client is essential.
Top 10 Reasons Why People Seek Therapy
Seeking counseling or therapy is a courageous and proactive step toward addressing personal challenges, fostering growth, and enhancing overall well-being. From navigating mental health issues to coping with life's stressors and seeking support during times of transition, therapy offers a safe and supportive space for individuals to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. In this guide, we'll explore the top 10 reasons why people seek counseling/therapy, along with how therapy can help individuals overcome obstacles, build resilience, and lead happier, more fulfilling lives.
Pain Reprocessing Therapy: A Pathway to Liberation from Chronic Pain
Chronic pain is a formidable adversary that can significantly diminish one's quality of life, impacting physical health, mental well-being, and overall functionality. Conventional treatments often focus on managing symptoms rather than addressing the underlying causes, leaving many individuals searching for more holistic approaches to find relief. In recent years, Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT) has emerged as a promising modality, offering hope and healing to those burdened by persistent pain. In this article, we'll delve into what PRT entails and explore how it can be a transformative tool for clients grappling with chronic pain.
Unveiling the Top 8 Most Sought-After Counselling Therapy Modalities in 2024
In the ever-evolving landscape of mental health and well-being, and with the evolution of widespread information on TikTok and social media (and no - that’s not a good replacement for professional help!), individuals are more aware of the types of therapy options available to them than ever before. As we step into 2024, various therapy modalities have gained immense popularity, catering to the unique needs and preferences of clients. Let's delve into the top eight most client-requested counselling therapy modalities that we are noticing trending at our Vancouver, Surrey, Chilliwack and Telehealth counselling clinics this year.
Racial Trauma-Informed Therapy
Racial trauma is ongoing collective and individual injuries from ongoing exposure to racism, oppression, racial stress, and race-based discrimination. Racial trauma includes the emotional and physical symptoms experienced by Black, Indigenous, and people of colour (BIPOC) due to racism, as well as the collective trauma that may be carried by an individual.
Building Resilience: Unlocking Inner Strength with Counselling Guidance
Life presents us with countless challenges that can push us to our limits. Developing resilience is crucial not only for weathering these storms but also for emerging stronger and more empowered. In this blog post, we explore the importance of resilience and how a counsellor can play a pivotal role in helping individuals cultivate this invaluable trait.
Healing Childbirth Trauma
The hard truth is, many individuals suffer in silence after childbirth, unaware that their childbirth experience can be viewed as traumatic. Birth trauma can come from adverse physical experiences, mental and emotional experiences, and interpersonal experiences. No one can label your experience other than you.
What is trauma?
When we experience a trauma our mind becomes highly alert to potential danger and it triggers a set of emotional, physiological, and behavioural responses, which often causes us to feel stuck. A common misperception that people have is that they feel their brain isn’t working, while others might say things like “I feel broken”, “I’m not who I used to be”, “I feel stuck”, and so on. If we circle back to the black ice metaphor, we can rest assured that the car (just like our brain), in fact, is NOT broken but trauma does have a way of making us feel stuck in time.